1. Get rid of the need to judge to determine who’s prettier, richer, more educated, more intelligent and more talented.

2. Focus on our reality as spirit.

3. Think of equality and focus on similarities.

4. Think in terms of goals and where we want to go. This is what drives us forward.

5. Be service oriented.

6. Live with integrity.

7. Stop people pleasing.

8. Do the things that we love.